I am fanatic about children riding safely in cars.
It is an absolute necessity to have and properly use a car seat.
A child relies on us as the adults in his/her life to keep him/her safe…that is an awesome responsibility.
I was thrilled when I found the Car Seat Lady‘s site…she helps parents and caregivers fulfill their responsibility to their child regarding safety in cars.
Make sure you check out your child’s car seat and make your child as safe as you can when they are riding in your car…NO EXCUSES!
The American Academy of Pediatrics just made a new statement on kids and media. Here is a review of what they had to say.
Tips for Parents on Making a Family Media Use Plan:
Make a media use plan for your family.
- Write rules down,
- Check quantity and quality of media, take a look at the location of your tvs, phones, and computers including tablets.
- Location- no screens in kids bedrooms and have a “media curfew”. Have a control center where all electronics get plugged in a night.
- Excessive media use has been associated with obesity, lack of sleep, school problems, aggression and other behavior issues. Entertainment screen time should be no longer than 2 hours a day.
- No screen time for children under 2 years of age.
- Co-viewing programs with your kids and discussing values , look for educational media choices.
- The Internet can also be a place where kids can run into trouble, keep the computer in a public part of your home.
Discuss the Internet Rules:
- Discuss “digital footprint” with your children. Let them know that where they go on the internet can be remembered…nothing they do online is a secret.
Discuss Social Media:
- Become familiar with popular social media sites like Facebook, Twitter and Instagram get your own accounts.
- By “friending” your kids, you can monitor their online presence. Pre-teens should not have accounts on social media sites.
- If you have young children, you can create accounts on sites that are designed specifically for kids their age.
- Good “digital citizens”, discuss the serious consequences of online bullying.
- If your child is the victim of cyberbullying, it is important to take action with the other parents and the school if appropriate.
- Attend to children’s and teens’ mental health needs promptly if they are being bullied online, and consider separating them from the social media platforms where bullying occurs.
- Sexting of any kind is not appropriate and remember the internet is NOT private.
- Check out a sample “Media Time Family Pledge” for online media use.
How do you monitor your kids’ screen time?
- Children, Adolescents and Media (AAP Policy Statement)
- SafetyNet (AAP Internet Safety Site)
- The Impact of Social Media Use on Children, Adolescents and Families (AAP Clinical Report)
- Children, Adolescents, Obesity and the Media (AAP Policy Statement)
- Sexuality, Contraception, and the Media (AAP Policy Statement)
- Media Use By Children Younger Than 2 Years (AAP Policy Statement)
I both love and loathe this time of year. I love that my kids are excited to see their friends, make new ones, meet their teachers, and have a genuine enthusiasm to learn new things. But…I loathe that the passage of time is staring me squarely in the face, declaring…yes, your kids are growing up and moving on. Get used to it.
Back to school, as I said in my last post signals “a new beginning” which is at best bittersweet.
Given my feelings and I am apparently not alone, there are things to keep in mind that may help keep your kids healthy and safe.
My first recommendation is to get enough sleep yourself and make sure your kids get on a back to school sleep schedule and stay on it.
- Sufficient sleep will help to keep your immune system in its finest form to help ward off the coming colds.
- Making sure that your kids are up to date on their yearly check-ups and their immunization schedule…I am in favor of vaccinations so no need to chastise me for this.
- Make sure all of your emergency medications are up to date at home…get rid of expired and near expired meds…make a kit with bandaids, antiseptics for cuts, cleansing cloths etc….keep it in a place that is easily reachable. You should also have one in the car.
Be aware of recommendations when it comes to OTC medications for children.
Be aware of your child’s symptoms and whether they are allergy symptoms or cold symptoms.
Check with your pediatrician if you are not sure.
As a parent or caregiver, you are in charge of your kids’ health. Now that it’s allergy season, your child may be experiencing symptoms from allergies or a common cold – that can strike year-round.
There are many over-the-counter options available to help make your child feel better when he or she has a cold or allergies, but be careful to only use a medicine that treats your child’s specific symptoms. Our “Decrypting Your Child’s Symptoms: Colds vs. Allergies” checklist can help you better understand your child’s symptoms and how to treat with care.
Last but not least, keep your child home from school if he/she is sick. If your child has a fever he should not return to school until 24 hours after he is fever free.
The news that Jenny McCarthy will be joining a show as popular as “The View” is very disturbing and distressing to me.
My whole professional life has been devoted to maternal child nursing and clinical social work. Jenny’s views on vaccinations are dangerous and deadly. She has used her “Hollywood” persona to champion her anti-vaccine cause…along with thumbing her nose at legitimate scientific research.
Barbara Walters has now given Jenny a national platform. In my opinion, Barbara is making a huge professional mistake with this choice.
Does she really want to be associated with promoting the anti-vaccination culture?
Ironically, Barbara may have lived to the ripe old age of 83 because she was vaccinated when she was a child.
Barbara’s decision to give Jenny national exposure on a daily basis on “The View” is as outrageous as Jenny’s beliefs about vaccines.
It is definitely time for Barbara to retire but her last deed before leaving television should not be something that very well might eclipse all the good that she has done for women during her career. Hiring Jenny should not be part of her television legacy!
What do you think?
Personally, I will not be viewing “The View” nor will I be supporting any of its sponsors.
That’s why it is so distressing to add another first to the list of Walters’s achievements: Jenny McCarthy, who will join “The View” in September, will be the show’s first co-host whose dangerous views on childhood vaccination may—if only indirectly—have contributed to the sickness and death of people throughout the Western world. See jennymccarthybodycount.com. McCarthy, who is savvy, telegenic, and pulchritudinous, is also the person most visibly associated with the deadly and authoritatively discredited anti-vaccine movement in the United States. She is not subtle: McCarthy once essentially threatened the actress Amanda Peet, who has often spoken out about the obvious benefits of childhood vaccinations, by warning Peet that she had an angry mob on her side. When people disagree with her views on television, McCarthy has been known to refute scientific data by shouting “bullshit.”
A baby car seat is, in my opinion, the most important purchase a parent makes…
Do your homework when making your decision.
You definitely want to consult “The Car Seat Lady”
If you are a Facebook user, then her page is also a must
Another person to involve in your baby gear decisions is,
“The Baby Guy NYC“, Jamie Grayson…
Jamie is also on Facebook…
So, if you or anyone you know are about to purchase a car seat or baby gear of any sort…
Run to your computer and check out these two …
They have done all the work for you!
Disclosure: This is not a sponsored post.
Do you or anyone you know use amber necklaces to relieve teething pain?
As a mother-child nurse, I am always skeptical about such claims when it comes to putting a child at risk.
What do you think about product claims that have no scientific evidence when it comes to children and baby items?
I am very leery, especially if there is any possibility of harm when using these necklaces even if they do “work”.
This is an easy call.
The complete lack of any good evidence that amber necklaces relieve teething pain means that there is absolutely no benefit to offset the risk of wearing them.
Remember that in risk assessment, the size of the risk depends on two factors –
- the likelihood of the event happening,
- the severity of the consequences.
In this case, one consequence could be death by choking, and in my book, that rules them out completely. I’m disgusted that they are sold in some pharmacies (here).
The neighbor looked at the clock and saw it was almost 8:30, time to walk her daughter to the bus. “I have to go,” she said, hugging the Bardens, leaving them at the kitchen table. Jackie poured more coffee. Mark checked his phone messages. Jackie walked outside to get the mail and brought it into the living room. Mark opened a package from Minnesota that contained a Sherpa blanket and a note that read: “We will never forget.”
The school bus came. The school bus went.
“What do you want to do?” Mark asked, and in that moment, the answer to both of them was clear.
“What can we do?” Jackie said.
“Nothing,” Mark said, and he sank down next to her on the couch.
I hope you will read this entire piece from The Washington Post and commit yourself to making difference when it comes to gun ownership in the United States.
There must be stronger gun regulation…not that it will prevent all of the violence but it hopeful could certainly prevent some.
The Bardens fight for gun controls will be a long one that will constantly remind them of that horrible day in December, 2012 when their beloved son died at the hands of a mass murderer in what was supposed to be a safe haven ….his first grade classroom.
I am not sure I could be as strong as they have been in their efforts on the political scene…it just seems so painful, futile and frustrating in many ways, reopening a wound that will never really heal.
This type of fight is truly never ending…it is a battle that leads to more frustration on some days than any parent, who has lost a child should have to endure.
Remembering back to 1981, when President Reagan and Jim Brady were shot outside a hotel in Washington, D.C….there was outrage…Jim Brady and his wife battled long and hard to have the Brady Bill passed.
It was finally signed into law by President Clinton in 1993!
The Brady Bill was a start, but over the years it has not proven to be all that effective.
The Brady Handgun Violence Prevention Act (Pub.L. 103–159, 107 Stat. 1536, enacted November 30, 1993) is an Act of the United States Congress that instituted federal background checks on firearm purchasers in the United States.
It was signed into law by President Bill Clinton on November 30, 1993, and went into effect on February 28, 1994. The Act was named after James Brady, who was shot by John Hinckley, Jr. during an attempted assassination of President Ronald Reagan on March 30, 1981.
I worry for the Bardens, that without the clout of many of us they will continue to suffer more and more as they attempt to have an effect on the gun lobby.
How can any of us help?
How do you really feel about guns?
The Barden family’s pain should not go unnoticed when it comes to this issue..
the loss of their beloved son Daniel is a horrible tragedy
that should never have happened…
I am heartsick after reading their story in the Washington Post…
knowing that nothing can soothe their pain…
if I had the opportunity I would wrap my arms around them
but they would be easing my sadness not the other way around…
there is nothing that can justify the death of a child…
to surviving parents and family…
I have read this before but every summer it really is something that I read over again to refresh my memory of how easy it is for anyone to drown even when there are a lot of people around…like in a crowded pool with lifeguards present.
If you and your children are around water in the summer months please take time to review what drowning actually looks like…it can be a very quiet, silent accident. When your children are in the water they need your attention…so it is not a time to be on a cellphone or to be in a deep conversation poolside.
Little ones can drown so easily and get into trouble in the water so quickly that taking your eyes off of them even for a second can make a dangerous difference in being able to rescue them or not.
Review water safety with your children and have a safe summer.
The new captain jumped from the deck, fully dressed, and sprinted through the water. A former lifeguard, he kept his eyes on his victim as he headed straight for the couple swimming between their anchored sportfisher and the beach. “I think he thinks you’re drowning,” the husband said to his wife. They had been splashing each other and she had screamed but now they were just standing, neck-deep on the sand bar. “We’re fine; what is he doing?” she asked, a little annoyed. “We’re fine!” the husband yelled, waving him off, but his captain kept swimming hard. ”Move!” he barked as he sprinted between the stunned owners. Directly behind them, not 10 feet away, their 9-year-old daughter was drowning. Safely above the surface in the arms of the captain, she burst into tears, “Daddy!”
I hate having to write another post about yet another
Oklahoma experienced a natural disaster
that took the lives of many,
among them innocent children
at school where they thought…
they were safe