Simply put, I could not wait to share this post from NPR ….temper tantrums are so exhausting for the child, parents, grandparents and anyone else around.
This is great information with some scientific background.
Another recommendation of mine for dealing with “meltdowns” is found in “The Happiest Toddler on the Block” by Dr. Harvey Karp.
Good Luck…hope it helps.
Temper Tantrums (video)
The trick in getting a tantrum to end as soon as possible, Potegal said, was to get the child past the peaks of anger. Once the child was past being angry, what was left was sadness, and sad children reach out for comfort. The quickest way past the anger, the scientists said, was to do nothing. Of course, that isnt easy for parents or caregivers to do.
via Whats Behind A Temper Tantrum? Scientists Deconstruct The Screams : Shots – Health Blog : NPR.
This is indeed a wonderful article but I think parents will not find it as easy as scientists to find humor in repetitious tantrums. Well not until the child’s wedding day… 🙂
So true, I found it so interesting especially how they studied the actual mechanisms of the tantrum…but when your child is in the midst of one it might not be so meaningful.. Thanks for your comment and thanks for reading.